Telling people we love them is so important

View from Table Mountain

My family live in several countries around the world, which I guess is quite normal for families these days. It doesn’t stop me loving them the same as I have always done.

One of my sisters celebrated her birthday recently. She lives in Cape Town and leads a crazy busy life, but I managed to get her on the other end of a phone over the weekend. It’s always wonderful to catch up with her and to hear news of the rest of the family. She told me all about how great her birthday was, the lovely gifts she’d received, the dinner, and she told me how she went up Table Mountain via cable car with her whole family. They stayed there until eight o’clock in the evening, taking pictures of the setting sun. She said that was the best gift of all – having all her family with her to enjoy the views with her. She promised to send me photos, and I fell in love with the one accompanying this blog, which shows part of the cable car and the views of Cape Town below, the sea and Robben Island in the distance.

At the end of our conversation, I told my sister that I loved her very much, not only as my sister but also as my friend. She said my words created a cozy warmth around her heart.

Her reaction reminded me once again how important it is that we tell the people in our lives that we love them. Often we assume they know how we feel about them, and I’m sure they do, but it’s so important to say it, especially when they’re still around to hear it. Life is so short.

In the end, isn’t it what we all want – to be accepted and loved unconditionally for who are, warts and all?


  1. I learned this a long time ago, Angelina. Was raised in part by my grandmother. When I was almost 14 I got in an argument with her late at night, such a stupid thing. The next morning she didn’t wake me up for school. I found her dead in bed. Brought that home real quick.

    • Angelina Kalahari

      30/11/2016 at 3:23 pm

      Oh, Cameron, what a terrible thing to have happened to you and at such a young age too – I’m so sorry that you had to have such a profound experience so early in your life.

      It’s something I hear often – people who wait too long to say they love the other person and then regret it afterwards to the point that it affects their whole lives. That’s why I think it’s so important to say to those people who are important to us. It’s only three little words, but it means so much to both parties – I’m sure I’m not alone in feeling really great when I’ve told someone I love them.

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